2015 – Letters from Lesotho #2

2015 – Letters from Lesotho #2

Greetings,

As I write, Hilary and I are in Thaba Tseka. The morning light is creeping over the mountains outside my window. I hear a rooster and people chatting as they walk about their business. Someone is whistling. In the distance a young girl carries a huge container of water on her head. I can almost feel the morning dew on her bare feet. Another day dawns.

Peg with their Majesties of Lesotho

I visited the palace last week to see the King and Queen. Her Majesty came in first so that we could have a few moments alone. It was fun to greet each other and reminisce about her recent trip to Canada. I was delighted to hear that the Princess had a marvelous time. When His Majesty joined us, they both perused the photo books I brought for the Queen and Princess as mementos of their time with us. As always, they were lovely and interested.

Their support has meant a great deal to me, to our beneficiaries and to our donors. I am delighted to confirm that they both will be attending our 10th Anniversary Celebration on March 13 in Hlotse. It is very unusual that they both attend an event and we are honoured.

For years we have struggled to help the grannies with their various eye problems.

So many have glaucoma, cataracts and serious eye infections. Many need glasses and surgery. It has been a real challenge but our Country Director, Shadrack, has finally found a way to help them with the support of some medical missionaries. These ophthalmologists are holding clinics in three locations to examine our grannies and their husbands.  Several grannies came a week early – dear souls!

However, last week on the appointed day, of the 62 people (50 grannies; 12 husbands) who patiently waited in the Centre to be examined:

  • 30 needed glasses
  • 9 required mediation for infections
  • 20 will require surgery, some urgently.

For the latter, time can be of the essence or they will go blind. We do not have the funds to help them. On average, the surgery is $165 per person. Rounding it up to include their transportation, we need CAD$3,500 or $175 per granny. Again, this is one of three groups of grandmothers who will have this precious chance to regain or retain their sight. If this is an average, the total cost will be $10,500. We will prioritize the urgent ones first as funds allow. If this is something you can help with for one granny or more, or if you know a service club, book club or association who could, please let us know. One imagines how much harder life will be for them and their orphans if they lose the rest of their sight.

Peg and Sr AliceMany of you know that my dear friend, Sr. Alice, was in a truly horrible car accident 14 months ago in which one nun died and Sr. Alice was badly injured. Suffice it to say that she now has a reconstructed cheek and jaw, new teeth, and pins in her head, arm and hand.

It was pure joy to see her this time doing well – back at her job as Principal of Pitseng High School and having gained a bit of weight. She is looking forward to our Anniversary and to greeting our Canadian guests. Sr. Alice remains a leader on our local Advisory Council here and is a huge Help Lesotho advocate.

Our trip to Thaba Tseka has been excellent. It is fun to show Hilary my world up here and introduce her to many principals, children and partners – many of whom have been good friends over the past years. As she finally sees for herself the incredible impact of our programs, I can see the tears in her eyes.

For example, we were at the mission hospital yesterday and a young woman came up to the truck. She introduced herself and told us that she was one of the youth trained in leadership up here and now she is in her second year of nursing at the wonderful little nursing school beside the hospital. She just wanted to say that Help Lesotho had made such a difference in her life.

As we visited schools – on the 50th anniversary of the Canadian Flag – you would have been proud of these flags flying faithfully in appreciation at three of our partner primary schools.

We traveled to a little school high in the mountains on the worst road I have ever been on – and that is really saying something! We traveled for a long time, mostly going straight up on rough tracks, dodging boulders and deep ruts, and navigating narrow passages and intense inclines. Our staff here have been working with the families in this isolated community for months to build keyhole gardens, grow potatoes and learn about AIDS and health related issues.

We have been holding life skills training for the children – so many children. Many of the children had never seen a white person. The principal walks an hour from the road each way – every day for 15 years. There are 156 children in this little primary school from grade 1-5. There are three classrooms in all with two sharing grades. One class has 56 children. Many of the children walk two hours to school over this impossible terrain – just to learn a little while sitting in a dirt classrooms with little light and no resources.

children at school in Lesotho

I gave them a copy of my children’s book and they could not believe that there was a beautiful book featuring THEIR lives! It truly was a humbling day.

Words pale in telling you how much all these beneficiaries appreciate the work we are doing – because of your support. Thank you so much – again and again!

Best wishes,

Peg

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2015 – Letters from Lesotho #1

2015 – Letters from Lesotho #1

Greetings!

Hilary Evans, our Deputy Director, and I have been in hot, sunny Lesotho for over a week now. It is very exciting to have Hilary here – her first time in Africa. The busy days allow little time to put thoughts to a letter.

We left on the wings of our December Anniversary Celebrations in Canada. We were thrilled with the results of the many events and gatherings in Ottawa, Toronto and Kingston. It was a joy to thank so many individuals who have supported us over these past 10 years and to share the impact of our work with many new people. Our CHANGE HER LIFE campaign is making a huge difference in the lives of hundreds of girls and women already.

Each one has a new chance at a future – because of those donors.

Because we have such a small staff, it took an army of volunteers to pull it all off. Each one did a great job – rallying to the cause and time pressures.

  • Behind the scenes board members
  • Christine Matheson
  • Joan Gregorich
  • Kristie Kennedy
  • Anne Richards
  • Linda Champagne
  • Sheryl Selwyn
  • Marilyn Rennick
  • Joanne Beveridge played key roles.
  • Jennifer Parr hosted our granny, ‘M’e Makatleho, and Girl4ce Leader, Felleng in Ottawa.
  • The Hellyer’s hosted me, ‘M’e Makatleho and Felleng in Toronto.
  • Merdon Hosking helped our staff in so many ways.
  • The Pearls4Girls volunteers were amazing as always!

Queen Masenate and PegIt was a real privilege to host Her Majesty, Queen Masenate and Her Royal Highness, Princess Senate for ten days.

They were a delight to have – accommodating, engaging and just lovely. I will meet with Their Majesties tomorrow at the palace and am bringing photo books to the Queen and Princess commemorating their visit. We are so appreciative of their support.

Here in Lesotho, our staff come in from various locations across the mountains to share and to learn together for two days each quarter. At such a meeting last week, we showed the videoed speeches from Rogers TV from the anniversary. The staff were so proud and delighted by the Queen’s message of support for Help Lesotho. When I told the girls in our leadership program about the events they too were ‘over the moon’ as they say here.

Felleng told them she was moved by how humble we are in Canada, contrary to her expectations. She whispered:

“Tell them about the fun part – the tobogganing”!

Princess Felleng in Canada sleddingShe told the group about the time she and the Princess went together; they loved throwing snow balls and making snow angels! The other girls were incredulous! They went into gales of laughter when I told them that our Board Chair, John Graham, shoveled the walk after a dinner so that Her Majesty would not get her shoes covered in snow! Walter Raleigh look out!

I love to see our staff and the Centres busting with children, youth and grandmothers. I was keen to see our intern, Stephanie Vizi, a budding journalist and photographer. Her blog is excellent and being well read. Steph is half way through her year here and doing a great job. Pat Foreman, a retired school principal, is here for the third time. By next month, she will have spent 15 months here supporting our staff, building capacity and helping in her kind, insightful and gentle ways.

I knew I was really back in Lesotho when my first day brought a visitor: I knew and loved that beautiful smile.

Mats’iba was a shy young girl in grade seven when she was chosen ten years ago as one of the 16 girls sponsored by St. Bartholomew’s Anglican Church, Ottawa, for their entire high school education.

Dubbed the St. Mary’s Project after the hostel in they lived in, it was our first project and therefore our first attempt to help vulnerable girls in Lesotho. I am so eager to know what has happened to our girls as time goes on and am delighted when they find me. Mats’iba, now 25, had been waiting for me to arrive.

Child sponsorship program graduate Mats'ibaMats’iba wanted to volunteer at Help Lesotho. She said Help Lesotho was her mother while she grew up and she needs to give back. Mats’iba is head of her household of a younger brother and sister and takes her responsibilities very seriously. Neither sibling had the chance to go to high school and therefore have no prospects for employment. All her life, her mother has worked as a domestic in South Africa and occasionally sends some small amounts of money home. Mats’iba wants to be a social worker and has the marks to get into a local tertiary school when she can save enough money. Life is still not easy at all but she is managing and still has dreams of furthering her education and making a contribution.

Because Mats’iba was a sponsored child, she was able to graduate from high school in 2011 – the first in her family to do so. Because she had her certificate, she was able to get a job as a cashier at a local clothing store.

She was eager to tell me how she was doing and to thank Help Lesotho and her sponsors for all they have done for her:

She said that because of the sponsorship, leadership camps and the gender conferences, she was HIV negative, unmarried and healthy.

She has had a steady job for three years which she would never have had otherwise. She knows how to work hard, to communicate and knows how to stay safe. She ardently confessed,

“I can stand for myself. I am strong. I know about AIDS and that girls matter. I can make my own decisions and will not get into trouble. I can look after myself and solve my problems. Even in my family I make a difference. You can see that I know not to marry until things are better. I will not have children until I can afford them and send them to school.”

Child sponsorship program graduate MakhaboThree days later, at our staff meeting, Makhabo, another youth I have known since she was a little girl was there. She too was in the Child Sponsorship Program. She too finished high school and is saving to further her education. She will wait to have children until she finishes her education. Makhabo lives near our Pitseng Centre and has gone there daily since grade eight.

It is no exaggeration that the programs there, the leadership camps and youth training have kept this bright, determined young girl on the path to a solid future.

She is now 24, happily married, and working as a Youth Volunteer at the Pitseng Centre – a coveted position with a stipend. She is healthy and happy –beaming with gratitude that life has not abandoned her. She has purpose and love in her life for the first time, and she feels blessed. Her goal is now to give back to the children in her village.

You see, Child Sponsorship really does make a long term difference. Each life matters and no effort is wasted. This month we are selecting children for the sponsorship program for the new school year. If you can support a child, I urge you to consider it. Just ask Mats’iba and Makhabo.
I will be in Lesotho for two months as we prepare for our 10th Anniversary Celebration here and welcome some Canadian special guests. ….. stay tuned!

Best wishes – Khotsong

Peg

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